Change is always inevitable.... and it comes with a price.
Sometimes we think the price of change is too much, and sometimes it is. Change is what keeps us thinking and evolving, lest we stagnate as water in a sewer. I think I have come through a change and risen up from the ashes of the phoenix, risen from the drop of the Eagles claws and dropped into a new way of thinking and dreaming....Do we think or do we listen ~ today, I have some simple thoughts, "When you find someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible!" (from, When Harry Met Sally) Think about this and give a lot of thanks, if you have that someone already in your life, today, now! I've been thinking about relationships and boundaries, I believe the mark of a healthy, intimate relationship is to feel calm, centered and focused. We will feel taken care of, wanted, unconditionally accepted and loved just for existing and being alive. We will feel a part of something and not alone. We will experience forgiviness and being forgiven with no reminding us of past offenses or shortcomings. We find ourselves giving thanks for just being alive in this relationship. We will experience being free to be who we are rather than who we think we need to be for the others. This relationship makes you free from the "paralysis of analysis" needing to analyze every minute detail of what goes on in it. A healthy intimate relationship encourages your personal growth and supports your individuality, causing the spiritual growth of both people.
